What do you do with what you've seen?

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What do you do with what you've seen?

Postby jmarii on Wed Jan 13, 2016 12:53 pm

Not sure how active this board on the SO side is anymore. I will be going back to therapist for help with this issue, but if anyone has any advice, please share.

What do you do with what you've seen? My husband of 34 years never stopped this stuff. Just yesterday I looked up the description of the site he has been going to and found it to be advertised as barely legal and teen like porn. Then I was able to see the photos he has looked at (after all these years of doing this, I'm a pro at forensics)

He is confronted, again…and goes into this "I looked at porn again" and "i'm sorry for hurting you again". This doesn't hurt anymore. This teen stuff and what is done to these girls in the name of "porn" is disturbing and evil. I'm not hurt. I'm creeped out and actually traumatized by this.

If any of you have seen stuff like this, how do you get over seeing it?
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Re: What do you do with what you've seen?

Postby Lily on Thu Jan 14, 2016 2:47 pm

Hello jmari,
In the board rules it states, 'CHILD PORNOGRAPHY is the visual record of child sexual abuse. It is illegal worldwide. If you (or someone you know) is involved with child pornography, your needs exceed the scope of this board. Please seek professional help immediately. Perpetrators of child sexual abuse, including users of child pornography, will be reported immediately to law enforcement at http://www.missingkids.com.'

What maybe be legal in one country might be illegal in another country. So please no further discussion at all, barely legal or not

All of the SO's understand what it feels like to see what they are viewing without it being spelt out. If you have doubts about the legality report it.

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